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According to human reasoning and what is fair, she is absolutely correct. You made a promise and now you want to renege on it.
Yah, of course, probably has an opinion about how things should be handled going forward.
I agree with you on this, and she has dropped hints about that. While I am a willful young man with a personality inclined to leadership, I still have a long way to go. I am exceedingly grateful for God preserving my marriage and for my wife’s...
Was I you, I would fall to my knees in thankfulness that you are only at your present impasse.
Men have lost their marriages over their mere understanding of this issue.
Obviously your wife is not on board with you being totally the leader in...
A thought just came to mind. I don't know if you will have seen this, but I posted this is the Random Comments thread about using AI:
https://biblicalfamilies.org/forum/threads/random-comments.15567/post-304903
Maybe it will help give some clarity.
Thanks David. I appreciate you taking the time to update us, and I will continue to pray for you and your wife. Indeed, may our most gracious God providentially guide you through this trial that His Name is glorified. 🙏
Good afternoon sir,
Thanks for asking. Things are much the same but we had another clash about it last night by my prompting. I had her read the verses aloud to me, and she does not deny them but maintains they were done for Hebrew society and...
Hi @davidthebuilder, how are things working out? I was re-reading through this thread and was wondering how you are doing and how your relationship with your wife is now? It's been a while, so I pray there is growth and sanctification on all...
@davidthebuilder I was in a similar situation to you several years ago. I learned the truth about polygyny, by simply reading my Bible. It just became clear to me that I had been lied to. I waited a while and then brought it up to my first...
When you got married, she wanted you to be in charge as her patriarchal leader. She trusted you immensely with this - she trusted you to treat her well.
Now, if you know polygamy is acceptable to God, but choose not to pursue it because you are...
Welcome David! I would like to add another thought to the discussion along the lines of what you should focus on now that you have made your declaration/stand on the truth of marriage. I encourage you to start dealing with the "small stuff" that...
Alright so I said more or less this to her tonight.
Now it's time to wait and pray. Thank you everyone for the wisdom and prayers and support. God bless you all.
Any time you have to accept something that all your life you have been taught is base, immoral, and means your husband hates you, is going to take a while to wrap your mind around and accept.
The best thing is to pray for her, be humble, patient...
According to human reasoning and what is fair, she is absolutely correct. You made a promise and now you want to renege on it.
Yah, of course, probably has an opinion about how things should be handled going forward.