Attitude

[steve]

This is a presentation about female attitudes in the black community, but it applies to a lot of other women also.
Of course, none of the fair damsels in this group display these attitudes, this is just informational about those we might run into out there in the wild.

 

[Mojo]

Great quote from the comment section:

‘No one I've ever met told me "my Dream Woman is an assertive Boss Woman".’

 

[steve]

“Women’s beauty standards are set by women.”

That only makes sense if you are trying to attract women.
Us guys see it as annoying/ high maintenance.

 

[MeganC]

I will say that I am happy living in a place where the only black people I see are the types who made the trip to go see Yellowstone Park. Nice people IMHO.

As to what men think is beautiful I am at a loss to understand. I would not consider myself to be terribly feminine most days. I think more like some men than most women. I would think that I would be unattractive to men and some of them like me anyway.

Meaning to say that maybe these aggressive ghettopotamuses are attractive to some subgroup of men who like that kind of thing.

 

[The Revolting Man]

I will say that I am happy living in a place where the only black people I see are the types who made the trip to go see Yellowstone Park. Nice people IMHO.

As to what men think is beautiful I am at a loss to understand. I would not consider myself to be terribly feminine most days. I think more like some men than most women. I would think that I would be unattractive to men and some of them like me anyway.

Meaning to say that maybe these aggressive ghettopotamuses are attractive to some subgroup of men who like that kind of thing.

I spend a surprising amount of time inside a shocking number of black households. It seems black women are usually very high quality but you do run into the other kind, of course thats true of all demographics. There’s a general coarsening of the whole culture.

I’m always surprised by how black women treat me versus how they tend to treat the black men in the household. Even upper middle class black women (I work in and around Atlanta and there is a robust black middle and upper class) will talk to my lower class, scruffy hillbilly self with far more deference and respect than they seem to pay their own men.

I’m sure there’s some racialized, southern stuff going on there though. It’s probably all a complex sociological stew of misconceptions and ingrained cultural conditioning.

 

[MemeFan]

I spend a surprising amount of time inside a shocking number of black households. It seems black women are usually very high quality but you do run into the other kind, of course thats true of all demographics. There’s a general coarsening of the whole culture.

I’m always surprised by how black women treat me versus how they tend to treat the black men in the household. Even upper middle class black women (I work in and around Atlanta and there is a robust black middle and upper class) will talk to my lower class, scruffy hillbilly self with far more deference and respect than they seem to pay their own men.

I’m sure there’s some racialized, southern stuff going on there though. It’s probably all a complex sociological stew of misconceptions and ingrained cultural conditioning.

Research I have found (accidentally) say that whites are most preferable race for all races with possible exception of their own.

 

[Mojo]

It’s not race, it’s culture.
Thomas Sowell made that distinction clear.

Besides, I don’t think Steve posted this to be a racial commentary. It just so happens that the boss woman attitude has cemented itself in a segment of black American females. West Indian and Continental Africans don’t tend to have this cultural problem.

The point was to critique boss women.

 

[steve]

It’s not race, it’s culture.
Thomas Sowell made that distinction clear.

Besides, I don’t think Steve posted this to be a racial commentary. It just so happens that the boss woman attitude has cemented itself in a segment of black American females. West Indian and Continental Africans don’t tend to have this cultural problem.

The point was to critique boss women.

Thanx, I couldn’t have said it better.

 

[MeganC]

The point was to critique boss women.

When they go off the rails black women have their own unique quality that they bring to the table and they go much farther than simply being mere boss women.

They have a sense of racial entitlement where they believe they have a right to assault other people and that's the main distinction. They also like to attack in gangs and mobs because on an individual level they are cowards.

While I have seen plenty of white trash women acting out the difference is that the black women almost uniformly state their justifications for assaulting other people. Most of the white women will eventually back down and apologize for acting out. Black women will not.

Like the Russians it is next to impossible to deter or reason with people who believe they have a right to assault and even kill other people.

 

[steve]

When they go off the rails black women have their own unique quality that they bring to the table and they go much farther than simply being mere boss women.

They have a sense of racial entitlement where they believe they have a right to assault other people and that's the main distinction. They also like to attack in gangs and mobs because on an individual level they are cowards.

While I have seen plenty of white trash women acting out the difference is that the black women almost uniformly state their justifications for assaulting other people. Most of the white women will eventually back down and apologize for acting out. Black women will not.

Like the Russians it is next to impossible to deter or reason with people who believe they have a right to assault and even kill other people.

They are definitely getting into more than their fair share of trouble lately.
A lot of girls from other races that have been blimping out seem to be embracing the same spirit.

Going back to the question of who finds the heavy and heavily made up women attractive, it’s mostly the guys who simply want some action. They slather the not-so-pretty-or-healthy girls with attention and compliments in order to get some, creating a false market for the girls that want to attract a good man.
Pretty soon the whole herd thinks that they have to compete in that way.
Notice who the guys who have made some money in sports are making babies with, it isn’t the Queens.