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Created To Be His Help Meet - Debi Pearl

Joleneakamama

Joleneakamama

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Just thought I would share a book review.
My sis gave me a book Created To Be His Help Meet by Debi Pearl.
I share her appreciation for it and we agree that while we have read a lot of books on relationships this is the first one that has not left us as the readers looking for more from our husbands but instead has left us wanting more from ourselves.
If you are looking for fulfillment in life and marriage I highly recommend you consider the perspective of the author as well as her advice. (I am sure husbands would be blessed as well)
I consider this to be the best recipe book for a Godly marriage and home I have seen. ;)
 
Re: A Book Review

this book Created To Be His Help Meet by Debi Pearl sounds great.
 
Re: A Book Review

I totally agree ! "Created to be his helpmeet" is a must read !
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ASyers41 said:
I wouldn’t read anything by the Pearl’s they advocate the beating of children and disguise it as spanking
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This is not true. Much of their child rearing advice is very good; as my extremely well behaved children would attest to. I was heavily influenced by that book and many people here have met my children and can affirm how well behaved they are:

I don’t like everything Michael Pearl has to say in “To Train Up A Child”, I particularly don’t think that there is any need to set up trials for them to fail, life will provide ample opportunities for that, but other than that most of what he says is good.

A lot of the accusations that get leveled at them are pretty spurious. But be that as it may, Debi’s teachings to women is next level excellent. Even if Michael gets something’s wrong on parenting, that shouldn’t reflect on his wife’s book.
 
The Pearls are badly wrong about polygamy.

I know a number of families who have more or less followed their child rearing methods, and the children seem healthier and happier than most.
 
ASyers41 said:
I wouldn’t read anything by the Pearl’s they advocate the beating of children and disguise it as spanking
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The Pearl's first book helped clarify in my mind the difference between training and discipline. I found it very helpful. As one who has trained horses, goats, cows, dogs,...and raised several children, let me just say that what each needs can vary widely. Some of our children only needed a stern word, but that would have been completely inadequate for others and left them with bad habits of disobedience and giving in to anger.

As the Bible says, correction is not the fun part, but we know that the fruit of livng right is sweet. Why would we deprive our children of that? The obligation to train and teach children is what separates parents from babysitters. We do it so they are prepared for life and understand how to function within moral boundaries.
 
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